Lessons in Leadership: What a Cruise Ship Taught Me About High-Performance Teams

I recently had the opportunity to take my first-ever cruise with my wife Nelli as she attended a business seminar for entrepreneurs specializing in the art, craft, and subscription space. Nelli is the creative mastermind behind Happy Cloud Art Studio, and if you haven’t yet checked it out I couldn’t recommend it strongly enough! Overall this trip was a much-needed break from the demands of daily life and it provided me an opportunity to observe a different kind of team in action. What I saw wasn’t just impressive—it was a masterclass in leadership, communication, and teamwork.

A cruise ship is, in many ways, a floating city. Thousands of crew members from all over the world work together to create a seamless guest experience. From world-class dining to entertainment, safety protocols, and behind-the-scenes operations, everything functions like a well-oiled machine.

And yet, as any leader knows, high-functioning teams don’t happen by accident. They are built, trained, and reinforced through shared values, strong leadership, and a culture of excellence.

One small but powerful example that stood out to me was consistency.

The Power of Consistency in High-Performance Teams

I enjoy a well-made Old Fashioned. Comprised bourbon or rye whiskey, and enhanced with bitters, sugar, a slice of orange, and garnished with a cherry, it is a classic cocktail that is deceptively simple but requires skill to get just right. While I don’t drink often, I’ve enjoyed the chance to unwind on this trip, so I decided to order an Old Fashioned at several different bars throughout the ship.

Every single time, it was perfect.

The balance of flavors, the presentation, the quality—it was as if the same bartender had made it each time. But that wasn’t the case. Different bartenders from different nations, at different locations throughout the ship, all provided the same exceptional outcome.

That kind of consistency isn’t luck. It is the result of a strong team culture.

As I observed the ship’s crew throughout the week, it became clear that their effectiveness came down to four key principles—principles that apply not just to hospitality but to any team, in any industry.

1. Clear Roles and Responsibilities

On a ship, there is no room for ambiguity. Every crew member has a clearly defined role and knows exactly what is expected of them.

  • The bartenders follow precise recipes and maintain high standards.

  • The housekeeping staff follows a meticulous process to keep rooms spotless.

  • The deck crew handles logistics, navigation, and safety protocols with precision.

This clarity eliminates confusion, reduces wasted effort, and ensures that everyone is aligned toward the same goal.

In contrast, many teams struggle because roles aren’t clearly defined. Employees are unsure where their responsibilities begin and end, leading to miscommunication, inefficiency, and frustration.

Great leaders set clear expectations and ensure that every team member understands their role—not just in isolation, but within the larger mission of the organization.

Leadership Takeaway

  • Does your team have clarity on roles and expectations?

  • Does everyone understand how their work contributes to the bigger picture?

2. Seamless Communication

A ship’s crew does not have the luxury of poor communication. With thousands of passengers and thousands of moving parts, miscommunication can mean chaos.

Instead, they practice proactive, seamless communication. Orders are clear. Adjustments happen in real time. When one team member needs help, another steps in without hesitation.

In high-performance teams, communication is not an afterthought. It is a built-in process that ensures efficiency, collaboration, and trust.

Leadership Takeaway

  • How often does your team experience breakdowns in communication?

  • Are team members able to anticipate each other’s needs, or does work feel disjointed?

3. A Shared Mission and Culture of Excellence

Whether mixing a drink, leading a safety drill, or handling guest requests, the crew members on this ship are all working toward the same goal: an exceptional experience for every guest.

It is not just about individual performance. It is about the team delivering at a consistently high level.

This is what separates good teams from great ones—a culture of excellence. When every person is personally invested in the outcome, the entire team benefits.

Companies that build a culture where pride in work, attention to detail, and a commitment to excellence are the norm tend to outperform their competition. They also experience higher morale, lower turnover, and stronger results.

Leadership Takeaway

  • Does your team share a common mission and set of standards?

  • How do you reinforce a culture of excellence in daily work?

4. Trust and Mutual Respect

Perhaps the most powerful element of a well-run team is trust.

On a ship, every role—no matter how big or small—matters. The crew understands that their success depends on one another. The bartenders can only do their job well if the inventory is stocked. The dining room staff relies on the kitchen team. The maintenance crew ensures that the entire operation runs smoothly.

This level of trust allows them to work efficiently, effectively, and confidently.

In many workplaces, lack of trust is one of the biggest obstacles to success. Employees feel unsupported. They hesitate to make decisions. They worry about stepping on toes or being undermined. When trust is missing, progress slows, and collaboration suffers.

Leadership Takeaway

  • Do your team members trust each other to deliver?

  • Have you created an environment where everyone’s contributions are valued?

Applying These Lessons to Your Own Team

While most of us do not work on cruise ships, the same principles that drive exceptional teamwork in this environment can elevate any organization.

  • Clarity of roles ensures alignment and efficiency.

  • Seamless communication prevents misunderstandings and delays.

  • A shared mission unites the team in pursuit of excellence.

  • Trust and mutual respect create a strong, supportive culture.

Now consider your own team. Are these elements present? Where do you see strengths, and where is there room for improvement?

I would love to hear your thoughts—what do you think is the most important factor in a high-performing team? Share your insights in the comments below.

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Michael Forras

Michael D. Forras, known as The Everyday Diplomat, is a seasoned leader and leadership educator with over two decades of experience in the United States Marine Corps. As a Sergeant Major, Michael has been entrusted with guiding and mentoring teams through complex, high-pressure environments, developing a profound understanding of what it takes to inspire and empower others.

In addition to his distinguished military career, Michael has served with the Department of State, gaining invaluable insights into cross-cultural communication and diplomacy while stationed at U.S. embassies abroad. He has also spearheaded innovation initiatives within the Marine Corps, bridging generational and organizational divides to foster collaboration and drive groundbreaking advancements.

Michael holds a Bachelor's degree in Industrial/Organizational Psychology and is currently completing an MBA with a concentration in Management Consulting at Penn State University. He has also received advanced leadership training through the Department of Defense, Department of State, and renowned programs such as the Disney Institute’s Leadership Excellence program, further solidifying his expertise in management, leadership, and team dynamics. Passionate about helping others unlock their leadership potential, he founded The Everyday Diplomat to share his proven strategies for fostering trust, collaboration, and excellence across teams and organizations.

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